Sunday, November 30, 2014

Creative Lament


We are entering a time this Sunday that depending on who you are and where you live and what things are like at home,
You may call it Christmas shopping season, you may call it the
End of the semester,
some have called it the “Most Wonderful Time of the Year” or the “Happiest Season of all”
Others greet this time of year with a deep sadness and grief
For some it would be more aptly named “the loneliest time of the year”
Those who have lost loved ones in this year or recent years will feel the ache of that loss again
Those who are struggling to find basics of food and shelter will find this time of year exceptionally painful
In Dickens’s memorable words, “It is a time, of all others, when Want is keenly felt, and Abundance rejoices.”
Among the names that this season carries is Advent.

What does Advent mean?
Advent is a Latin word that means “Coming”
Or “to arrive.”

Advent is a season of expectation.
Expecting what?
It’s not about expecting Christmas presents or school vacation –
Or the end of a school semester
It’s expectation that is much bigger than these things – though these smaller longings are related.
It’s an expectation of the coming of God’s redeeming grace among us.
Advent marks a time of divine discontent.  A sense of longing for God to heal what has been broken
In our hearts, in our communities, in our land.
This is why we read from the Prophets of the Hebrew Bible like Isaiah.
Someone like Isaiah is putting into the words the spiritual groaning of a people who long for healing and redemption in their midst.
“O that you would tear open the heavens and come down, so that the mountains would quake at your presence – as when fire kindles brushwood and the fire causes water to boil-- to make your name known to your adversaries, so that the nations might tremble at your presence!”

This is the radical spirit of Advent.  A longing for God to enter into our world and make right what the human race has made a mess of.  It is a testament to the incredible complexity of human experience that a few days after we’ve celebrated “Thanksgiving” and remembered the value of cultivating gratitude, we can recognize the legitimacy of a deep and real discontent that is in us as we look around and take in the world in all of its pain.

Gratitude exists right alongside lament.  And to silence either one is to neglect a real and significant part of who we are as human beings, creatures of God living in a world which continues to deny its createdness.

I think this is an important thing for us to remember when we experience frustration or despair or anxiety about living in a world where violence and hatred and exploitation of land are the stuff of the daily headlines.

The prophets and the psalms of the Hebrew Bible are full of prayers of lament.
Prayers that often include the agonizing words, “How long, O Lord?”
People who live under oppressive economic or political systems,
longing for freedom that can truly be called freedom,
For peace that can truly be called peace.

I think a big obstacle to being able to lament is our culture’s intolerance of what we call “negativity.”
I am sympathetic to the negative reactions people have to what is called “negativity”

But I don’t think there are only two choices of expression.  Either positive or negative.  That’s too simple for me.
I think there are many kinds of expression which cannot fit into these two boxes.
Anyone who’s laughed in the midst of tears can attest to the complexity of human feeling.

But while I don’t think there are only two kinds of expression, I do think there are two ways of being which shape how we can express those various emotions and responses to our world.

We can express ourselves as atoms, islands in the cosmos
disconnected from others and having no fundamental relationship
to either creation or creator. 
Or we can express ourselves as those who have been
“fearfully and wonderfully” made by God,
each of us formed with intention and delight like pottery at the hands of the potter.

Later on in our reading from Isaiah as the prophet continues to mourn the failures of his people and cry out for God to make some difference, he appeals to God as the artist, the one who gave them life in the first place – who shaped them out of the clay.
“Yet, O LORD, you are our Father; we are the clay, and you are our potter; we are all the work of your hand.”

The two ways of being – Martin Buber called it the difference between the I-it and the I-thou relationship. 
How we approach ourselves and the world – as that which was made or as that which merely exists for us.

And so it’s not about avoiding feelings of frustration or sadness and forcing ourselves to avoid this or think about that – but to bring that discontent into a prayer of lament and longing before the Creator.

There is a divine discontent,
a discontent not arising from a sense of self-importance or hatred for a neighbor,
but from the ache of seeing how beautiful the good creation is – and yet how abused the good creatures and the good creation have become at the hands of human institutions and individuals.

The selfishly dissatisfied indulge in cynical negativity,
The divinely discontented give voice to lament.

Lament does not exist by eliminating gratitude,
lament exists as the other side of gratitude.
Gratitude is the heart’s response to the gifts of life, of community, of food, of love.
Lament is the longing that comes alongside gratitude,
a prayer for the ones who suffer from the consequences of human greed and abuse
and who are deprived of the full enjoyment of God’s good creation, of life, of community, of food, of love.

Lament is the longing for ourselves to truly experience God’s love on the other side of our hurt,
Lament is the longing for others to truly experience a life free from fear and from want,
It is the brokenheartedness which exists in the realization of the great distance between the now and the not yet of God’s redeeming grace.

Even as we cultivate gratitude, we need not be afraid to lament.
These are emotions that go together.

Lament is sometimes individual – and it’s sometimes a lament for a whole community.

If we watch the news or read the papers, we have witnessed a variety of responses to racial division in Ferguson, MO –
Even I’m not experiencing what’s going on there first hand – I feel an ache within me for that community that prays, “How long?”

Isaiah’s lament in today’s reading concerns the people of Israel who had experienced the loss of their place, a loss which threatened more losses – loss of culture, loss of identity.  The people pray, “How long?”

I hear lament in our own place from older people who remember a time when rural places like Acworth had a stronger sense of community bond, a more authentic connection to the land, and a more caring sense of neighborhood.  Many feel the ache of this loss – many are praying, “How long?”

In Doug Whynott’s book Sugar Season he tells about going to hear someone in Concord talk about the changes in New England climate – and one of the conclusions that the man gave he quotes, “Most disturbing are the results of ecological modeling efforts that show the changes in climate could potentially extirpate the sugar maple within New England.  The maple industry is an important part of New England character, way-of-life, and economy that, because it is highly dependent upon prevailing climactic conditions, may be irreparably altered under a changing climate.”

It was to my great surprise when I was walking in the Boston museum of science with Bill and Shiela after we had gone to the Dead Sea Scrolls exhibit,
I came across the “Seasons of Change” exhibit about Climate Change in your backyard.  And there was a display on Maple Sugaring and so of course I walked over to check it out.  And there was our very own Alvin Clark on a video that was playing on repeat.
And it’s a great little video that shows Alvin and the sugarhouse and the maples right around Crane Brook road there.

Alvin talks about the long tradition of sugaring in his family and the quality of syrup that the granite soils of New Hampshire can produce.  And he talks about the changes that have occurred in the last 60 or 70 years, that have made an impact on flow of sap and the health of the maples.  And at the end of this short video Alvin reflects upon the predictions in a recent report that say the sugar maple will disappear from this area by the end of this century and he concludes:

“I just hope that we can continue on in our lifestyle as we have in the past – in future generations.”

It is the enjoyment of place that mourns its loss.
It’s the love of community, the gratitude for love that laments its being broken.

But it is out of the experience of lament for present loss and future loss, it is in the praying, “How long?”
that we are able to come together around a common vision for a better place, a better way of caring for people and for land.

Jesus speaks to a community that longs for renewal,
That longs for God come upon the scene and gather what has been scattered,
Reconnect what has been separated,
Gather all of God’s children from the four corners of the earth – and end the violence that destroys communities and places.
He says that we have no idea the time or the place when God will come among us and bring redeeming grace.  And so he says, “keep awake.”

In gratitude and lament, we keep awake and we walk with the God who made all things and will make all things new.

This Advent let’s consider what longings arise in our hearts –
Advent is a time of expectation for God’s renewing of our own love,
And for the healing of the human community
To turn from following selfish paths of destruction,
To follow the way of peace, which remembers the goodness of creation and Creator
and with gratitude, gives thanks,
and with lament, prays for all things to be restored again.

Let’s pray our lament. And let our lament create in us compassionate imaginations
that inspire us to become a part of the Advent coming of God’s redeeming grace in our time and our place,
for the healing of God’s good creation. 

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