Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Love and the Ordinary


A sermon for the fourth Sunday after Epiphany given at the United Church of Acworth, New Hampshire on Sunday, February 3, 2013.


In High School band I was in the percussion section.
I had the most fun when
I got to play the various cadences as we marched onto the field.
Left-right-left. . . .
Or when I got to play Wipeout during half-time at the basketball games.
Or offer up a drum solo in 5/4 time to Dave Brubeck's Take Five in Jazz band.
But there were less thrilling moments too.
Like when I had to play the suspended cymbal or the triangle in a concert piece.
When the music would show a sea of rests
with isolated scattered notes throughout the piece.
I had to count diligently or I'd lose my place and crash my cymbal or ding the triangle
At the wrong moment.

When we hear these words from 1st Corinthians,
What is it that we imagine?
I think of all the time I spent waiting
I had the mallets in my hands
but I couldn’t hit the cymbal.
Not yet.

If I speak in the tongues of mortals and of angels, but do not have love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.”

The Corinthian Christians were experiencing some frustration of their own.
(But it sounds far from boring)
Their intense religious experiences had them speaking in incomprehensible languages – the tongue of angels.

And there were some among them who in moments of inspiration gave words to the assembly,
prophetic words,
words from the Spirit.

This was not orderly.
They were not following the bulletin.
Not scanning the score, waiting for their instrument to be summoned.
AND YET
Paul says nothing to dissuade these Christians
from their ecstatic practices.
But he does do this.
He reminds them that while these spiritual gifts might seem like the pinnacle of spirituality,
they've got to be done in the proper way
A way that builds up the community.

If I speak in the tongues of mortals and of angels, but do not have love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.”

Last Sunday when we gathered together
we heard Paul’s reminder that while we have many gifts
we are still one community
created by and united by one Spirit who works in us all
equally.

And this Spirit is the one who enables the speaking in tongues.
But this Spirit also gives other gifts, some more ordinary in human eyes and some more extraordinary.

Many gifts, one Spirit, one purpose: the common good.

And this is where we get messed up by modern notions of love.

Love is not sentimentality.
Greetings cards and paper hearts.
Warm fuzzies.
Bright shiny faces.

The love that Paul presents is
A love embodied in words of Jesus in John's gospel:
No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.”

This is the foundation of our life together as a church.
This is the model.
This is the charge.
This is the high calling.
This is the impossible task:
To love one another as we have been loved by Christ.

And that love is the sheet music we follow to know when to play the cymbal, when to chime the triangle.

The Holy Spirit's greatest gift to us is the possibility
for our whole lives to be redirected away from our own pursuits
to the bigger picture of the common good.

The greatest gift is the gift of love which frees us from the tyranny of self-interest and opens us up to the possibility of community.
(pause)

Without that love which has been poured into our hearts, our spiritual pursuits are “a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.”

The clanging cymbal – that misplaced cymbal –

In the awkwardness of life together we find ourselves
crashing at the wrong time, chiming when hindsight showed that silence was what love needed.
And what do we do when the music is broken?
Love does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but love neither is love resentful.
Love in the form truthfulness and forgiveness points the way forward,
not ignoring the wrong,
but seeking the healing and restoration of the community.

Or sometimes we're a noisy gong.
Actually this translation is poor.
Paul more properly meant something like: “sounding brass”
which is what the King James has.
A sounding brass was a vase placed on the stages of theaters and used to amplify the voices of the actors.

Without love,
our grand spiritual gestures
our acts of selflessness
our devout spiritual practices
they are as empty as the cold metal vase.

But when the sounding brass is used in the play,
filled with the dramatic voices of the stage
These vases give volume and rich resonance to our collective performance.
When the cymbal is used in its right place –
it can be a beautiful crescendo or accent to a symphonic movement.
(pause)

Love is the music which the Spirit longs to create through us as the Christian community.

Without this, our communities become incoherent.
Our music becomes a cacophony.

But if we place our gifts, our triangles, our suspended cymbals –
in the context of the music of a love that is patient and kind,
not seeking its own,
we can manifest a community and not just a collection of individuals.

In the words of Jean Vanier,

We are not called by God to do extraordinary things, but to do ordinary things with extraordinary love.”

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